Vulnerable honesty

Is my honesty making me vulnerable? Vulnerable to the deception of another.They listen and understand what I want. They become that exact person.My requirements are what they show me. They become what I want. If they dress in my desires even though it is a false garb -they show me what I want..how do I then say no?

How do I filter the real from the artificial when my perception is flawed.Flawed not by my inability to see the truth but my inability to see how my own requirements communicated in the flow of things-become anothers purest way to decieve me.

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Anonymous said…
I don't think so - I would imagine that most who don't meet the requirements run away. I mean, the other option of not telling doesn't work very well.
10:06 pm
Ommara said…
The emphasis is on the acting and listening..if you get to know someone well enough --u know what they want and need and can become that person in their eyes..is the oldest trick in the book !
6:21 am
Hayaah said…
One cant act forever tho rite?
If one is acting they're bound to slip up...

The more time u spend with them, the sooner the facade starts tapering, leaving the charade vulnerable enough to be caught...
1:10 pm
Ommara said…
While most of my posts reflect current circumstances-this one certainly doesnt -am not quite sure where this one came from ! my mind works in strange ways hehe

True about the ACT Hayaah..they always get caught out
9:53 am
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